I wasted a lot of time on multiple occasions so I am putting this right up top: if you are right wing, conservative, a Republican, a Trump voter, a homophobe, racist or anything of the kind please stop reading. Most sexually open women are progressive and I firmly believe none of us should fuck you. Google "Lysistrata." I now return you to your regularly scheduled perving. ALSO moving this up top: I do not want timewasting long distance messages from people I'll never meet. Please desist. No, you are not doing a nice thing by telling me you like my photo. Now that I've gotten that out of the way... I am probably more experienced than anyone you know. I hosted swingers' parties for more than a decade and I am a part-time pro domme. If that’s not your thing, not a problem at ALL, that is not what I am looking for here. That is a game I enjoy, not my identity, and something I only occasionally do for free. And I'm a switch. I was out of circulation for a while, and I am striving to make up for lost time. Recently started going to parties again, and enjoying it. I think nothing of walking into a party and fucking six men, some of whom I had never met before. Not something I want to do every week but if that makes your jaw drop you are not tall enough for this ride. While I’m not fat, I am a substantial woman and definitely not slender. If you only like thin or small women I’m not your cup of tea. Nice breasts. Curly brown hair. Most of the photos are recent, some are very recent. I am a snarky, irreverent, overeducated journalist with an intellectual bent and a big streak of perversity. Some of my passions include scuba diving, travel, food and science fiction. Have seen some of the world and lust for more of it. My idea of travel is more independent exploration; I am allergic to "tours" and "excursions." I like the theatre, concerts and good restaurants of every variety except sushi. Especially love classic rock; still can't think about John Lennon without crying. But I will listen to almost anything besides or country and rarely go to New York without hitting a jazz club. Serious Star Trek geek, to the point of being embarrassing. I score as an INTJ (despite the stupid truncated version of the inventory they have here) and come off as extremely rational much of the time. Overthinking, research and intellectual analysis are my brand. People seem to think I'm intimidating, which kinda blows my mind. The truth is that a lot of the swagger is an act I learned to put on as a journalist. If the politicians know you are scared and rehearsing your questions a hundred times in your head, you are fucked.

Ma personne idéale : I am interested in single men who are dating prospects. This means similar education level, some shared interests and age that is not wildly inappropriate....and no smokers or cheating husbands. I’m not particularly looking for a "serious" relationship in the sense most people mean when they use that term, but I AM looking for ongoing, meaningful friendships. The goal is to enjoy physical encounters and also share interests, activities and conversation. I would love to find one or more men I can eventually care about, though that sure doesn't happen quickly. If you just want to fuck and leave, move on. I am especially interested in finding partners I can take scuba diving or to sci fi conventions. I can also take men whose company I enjoy to sex parties and events.

I believe in polyamory, and have never been monogamous in my life. However, I already have one significant relationship with a man who has a primary partner and both the practical limitations and my emotions (yes, see I do have them) are kicking my ass in ways I didn't anticipate. If you can't spend the night with me regularly and go on an occasional trip with me, you aren't available enough. And I'm going to prioritize men who are truly single.

If you are one of those guys who says "I wouldn't share MY girlfriend," I am not only completely uninterested, but you do not belong in the Lifestyle. Spare us your hypocrisy please.

I'm unlikely to meet you if you have no Lifestyle experience. There are SO many men here who have had their noses pressed against the glass but have no experience, either freshly divorced or freshly emboldened. I can sympathize but I have discovered that men who have no experience are not a good match for me. I am just way too much. In fact, it has been fascinating to discover, through engaging with them, just how much decades in the Lifestyle has affected the way I see and interact with the world.

Please, for fuck's sake, do not tell me you want to lick my pussy or send me a dick photo as your opening move. If I don't like and respect you, I won't want to fuck you. And if you want to fuck me without even having spoken to me, maybe because you think you like my tits or something, that does not impress me. I am looking for someone I can engage with mentally as well as physically. A meeting of minds requires that each individual actually has one.

If there is no information in your profile I will not be interested in talking to you unless you make up for it with a thoughtful, informative message that explains why you think we are compatible. No, I do not want to spend an hour chatting with you to drag out information I could have read in 30 seconds if you were not too lazy to provide it.

Another peeve: when I see the terms "discreet" (the correct spelling) or "NSA" or even "casual" my hackles go up. While I am not actively looking for anything serious, the implication that I am not worthy of it, or that you are simply trolling for a warm place to put your cock, is a big turnoff.

I've played with women and couples. I've had sex with more women than most men have, and I'm primarily hetero. But I’m not likely to meet a couple here, at least not any time soon. It's just not a good use of my limited free time.

So if I haven’t terrified you yet, here are the parameters.

Non-negotiable:
--Fully vaccinated.
--Single or in a truly polyamorous relationship. (And if you have a partner, the compatibility bar is going to be higher.)
--Between 45 and 65. I would consider an attractive, intelligent young man; if you are not educated don't waste your time. I will not meet a man in his 70s. Not going to happen. At this point in my life, even many men my own age just can't deliver.
--Nonsmoker (tobacco anyway).
--College educated or self educated enough that I would be surprised you didn’t go to college.
--Not a Republican. See above.
--A functional penis that is neither really large or really small. What would have made me drool 20 years ago would now be too much of a challenge. Addendum: Sadly I apparently have to spell this out. Less than 5 inches is too small. If that's you, please don't unless you are a top-notch scuba diver ready to jump on an airplane. If you have erectile dysfunction, please don't waste my time.
--Reasonably close. I have zero interest in aimless long distance chatter.
--At least some Lifestyle experience.

Extra points for:
--bisexual men
--scuba divers
--Interesting sexual experience.
--BDSM experience.
--An interesting career or hobby to talk about.
--Being even smarter than me.
--Science fiction nerds, especially Trekkies.
--Wealthy men waving tickets to Fiji.

Am I asking too much? Maybe. But I get enough good sex from current sources to meet basic needs. If there isn't more on the table in addition to sex, I'll pass. The right men will be very happy to have found me.

Quels sont vos chanteurs ou groupes préférés ?:
The Beatles, Bruce Springsteen, the Clash

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Le sexe anal, La fessée, Esclave/Maître, Voyeurisme, makes me sound even kinkier than I am

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, Fétiches communs ou similaires, intelligence

Avez-vous déjà fantasmé sur une célébrité ? Qui ? Qu'est-ce qui vous excitait ?:
I have played with a female porn star and been propositioned
by a former president...maybe I'll tell you about it over a drink.

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
J’ai essayé, mais ce n’est vraiment pas la même chose.

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