Just because people do not have pics up, do not make them bots. Back when I was 15, and my older sister was 21 and still at home, we had a bad, scary case of someone stalking my sister and obsessed with her and had him arrested and had to go to trial over it. I just moved back home after college and my mom forbid me to put pics up and I agree with her, I have no rea to hide a dating site from my parents since I am in my 20s now, nothing wrong with that, but now I am overly cautious with talking to guys. End of story. I had 4 years of psychology and taking a break now, deciding on whether I am going for my Master's degree in another year or so. Unfortunately, this is more of a sex site than a dating site, and men really do treat women like dumb sluts, and again, unfortunately, the women do nothing to discourage that stereotypical behavior, most will play with themselves, talk dirty, and meet at the drop of a hat with someone who is constantly degrading them. (This next part is NOT to you, just a generalization and compilation of all men on here, to point out how sexist the men treat all women on here, and they do nothing to contradict that stereotypical behavior.) I have no problem watching a guy masturbate, but 1.) It does NOT mean I am playing with myself, 2.) that I am horny, perhaps only just browsing, 3.) that I am going to "talk dirty to you," "cam with you" or meet you after 1 hour of chat for dirty pig sex", 4.) That I immediately want to join you and your wife/girlfriend/hermaphrodite transvestite (did you see what I did there? If not, I am already clearly more intelligent than you and you will not get my sense of oxymoronic humor) for a threesome. WHY do all guys think all girls are, or have a fantasy about being bisexual, WE DO NOT. Let's see you and your buddy go at it first, before we ever consider it! Do not "tell me where you are going to put it or what you want ME to do with it", or talk down to me, I am probably more intelligent that you, Mr. Redneck who is jacking off on cam compared to out finding a nice girl. It's an interesting correlation on sites like this, whereas, you have 1000 guys on cam, about 95% are jacking off for minutes, (Mr. 1 minuteman!) or hours, whereas there are like 30 to 50 girls max, at any given time, and a far less percentage are doing anything more than being somewhat risque. It's just a shame that some guys start off chatting nicely with you, but have an ulterior motive shortly thereafter and show it without regards or even remorse when told about it, fairly quickly. I'll put more later, but can be shy at times, or somewhat wild and outspoken, as you see in my MONOLOGUE above! (And no Mr. Redneck, a monologue is not a train you ride around Europe.)