UPDATE: I feel compelled to update my profile to add the following. Please excuse if this offends you but at least you will know what I DON'T want. I will not answer the following profiles or i.m.'s: NO MARRIED. Tried it and it just doesn't work for me. NO ONE UNDER 45. Tried that too and it doesn't work. PLEASE STOP SAYING. "But I LOVE older women." Just the fact you say that and THINK you do, it's totally off putting. Bisexual professional woman with a brain, style and warmth. No game playing. If I meet someone and we click, I act. I don't lie...ever...and I expect the same. If it feels right I will say it, if it doesn't I will tell you and I will move on. It is so much better that way vs. the constant story telling these sites seem to foster. I do have a specific type but it isn't absolutely necessary.

Mi persona ideal: Brains, someone who can talk and enjoy an evening. If I don't enjoy having drinks or dinner with someone why would anyone think the more intimate would be any better. I know. I have learned.