I've been on & off this site for eight (8) years. I have found quite a few adult friends, ranging from four (4) stars to selective amnesia. Thank you AFF. It's been real. About me (George Carlin) version Single b***h who handles her business before indulging in pleasure. I've f***ed enough guys to know what I want (and need) to satisfy me, yet I'm willing to compromise ... for great sex. I don't play motherf***ing games, so don't attempt to play your bulls**t Jedi mind tricks because I'll call you on your s**t before you know what hit you. One last thing, I'm fat, not desperate. Like you, I have standards. You respect mine, I'll respect yours.

My Ideal Person Requirements:

Single male between the ages of 38-48 who understands women come in all shapes and sizes, yet appreciates (and has experience with) larger women. You are intelligent enough to stimulate my mind (not just my body), and mentally stable & emotionally mature enough to engage in a mutually beneficial sexual arrangement. An honest, open, straightforward approach is more effective than smooth talk and exaggerated flattery. Smokers are tolerated, alcoholics are not.

DDD free (disease, drug & drama) and protection are non-negotiable.

To avoid the discomfort of rejection, please do not contact me if you are African-American and/or under the age of 38 and/or over the age of 48. I'm too old for boys, and I need a man with a refraction time no greater than his age.

Disclaimer to those I affront with my directness, if there exists physical attraction & sexual chemistry between us, the sex will be good.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, monogamy without commitment

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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