Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. For me a perfect Friday night is looking for adventure-and finding it. For me a perfect date is a night on the town with a fascinating companion. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. If you contact me I promise to make it worth your while. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there!