I am educated, intelligent, good looking, fit,well travelled, good personality, humorous, well liked respected and ..married with . I have also been told I am a great lover. A time has come where it could be nice to experiment with someone in a similar situation (married etc) to add a little spark to an otherwise paedestrian life. I would prefer a lady in a relationship, and am really not looking for multiple relationships. You may be a lady who is in a relatively happy marriage but where there is a 'spark missing' and itch in a particular area that needs to be fixed and you fantasize about a lover who provides a great opportunity to let your hair down once in a while. This is something I too have fantasized doing. Perhaps the right time would be now - avoid the regrets later. A relationship or fling where we could step into a 'twighlight zone for a period' and do the things in a civilized way that pleasures us both without hurting close family would be ideal. Maybe hubbie is away for short periods, similar to the position I am currently in, lots of free time but for a limited period. Maybe hubby may like to watch and instruct! - also ok. ifnotwhynot and that would be at 'why mail' with a period followed by a com where you can contact me reading between the lines!!! I live in Brisbane and am an Australian of European extraction

My Ideal Person I am looking for a lady in a similar situation. A lady who is curious about an explore outside the marriage, no long term attachments or emotional possibilities, even if only to try it once and then return to boring mediocrity. It does not have to begin as a pure sexual thing, a meet and a coffee or meal and then see how we both feel. Discreetness is an absolute. I have no intention to become a 'male whore' and would prefer similar which will be safer and emotionally easier for both.

One last thing: Think back to the most exciting things you have ever done. Need not be only sexual. All have one thing in common - the excitement occurred when you stepped out of your comfort zone!