Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I get along best with people who have a positive attitude. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. I've always been good at getting a conversation started and keeping it interesting. For me a perfect date is dinner in so we can get to know each other better. I look forward to hearing from you soon. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy.