The philosophy I live by is if it gives you that adrenaline rush, in or out of bed, it was worthwhile. On Sunday afternoons I like to continue the screwing we started on Saturday night. I like my partners to be aggressive and take-charge. I get along best with people who are willing to push the envelope in bed and out of it. I've always been good at charging in where others fear to tread. I've reached the point where things are good, but lacking that vital spark. Time to change that.