"you cannot step into the same river twice" everything and everybody is changing all the time . change IS the only constant . there are times when i am willing to "roll with the flow" . other times i just have to " swim against the tide "ie. in the case of obvious injustice . I consider myself to be more open than closed . i avoid hurting others , however i consider that my first loyalty is to my frend and then myself . if setting a reasonable boundary will be hurtful to another , i will still set that boundary - regardless .

My Ideal Person I think there are two important aspects about my ideal person. One is appearance, and the other is personality.