The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. When I go out, I might hang out at the bookstore, or just go wherever. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. For me a perfect date is a concert by someone we both enjoy. I look forward to whatever life brings. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. If you contact me please include a face pic.