So here is my approach: I either like someone or I don't. Period. Protocol, kinky sex, and hot fantasies don't mean a damn thing if I don't like someone and therefore this is my yardstick for measuring compatible partners. Sure, there are compatibilities in terms of activities and play, but if I don't like someone and do not have trust in them as a person, everything else is immaterial. Kinksters often get caught up with questions like "should I, shouldn't I, how should we, is it acceptable to, should a dominant behave as thus, should a submissive behave some other way, etc.". I really couldn't care less how someone else thinks I should conduct my relationship. Like I said, when it comes to a partner, I either like and trust someone or I don't. Finding someone with similar interests isn't that hard - I mean, we all tend to advertise these things point blank in our profiles. [B]Therefore, what I look for is a partner who inspires me, someone with whom I feel comfortable, and most importantly, someone with whom I can communicate. If all these things are in place, the other stuff usually works itself out rather well.[/B] Perhaps I'm overly simplifying things, but I really don't think so. If anything, some people tend to overly complicate issues of courting by mistakenly thinking that our roles here on AFF negate the need for courtesy, kindness, respect, and plain old vanilla attraction. [B]In my mind, nothing is further from the truth. Friendship, trust, lust, and (hopefully) love are pretty good indicators of how you feel about someone and how compatible they are with you.[/B]

My Ideal Person Are you a strong women in your life outside the bedroom but do not want just a vanilla sex life. Do you want to live your FANTASIES? Drop me a note.!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Enya, Jane Olivor, Diana Krall and others

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Ask me!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, What ever my partner would enjoy

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not Really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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