I've been through many adventures and all have taught me a thing or two. I've cruised on oceans, drove across country, saw some of my most favorite things, and watched others pass. At 42, I've had just two careers but now am self employed here in Oregon and loving every minute of it as a corporate trainer and semi-retired. I treasure this life because I am aware of the meaning and purpose...laughter, adventure and love are a few of the keys.

My Ideal Person I may be be casting off and heading for warmer climates on board my sailboat eventually and I'm looking for a woman who wants to escape this crazy society with me. The South Pacific is calling - imagine doing what you want, when you want...and sailing to distant shores - retired but living like others dream of. I consider myself and my lifestyle to be unconventional, nonconformist, nonmaterialistic, simple, basic, adventurous, living on things that excite me. I am an imaginative man. I have endurance in 'whatever' I do, ambition in life, I'm educated and value above everything else - humor and communication. I'm certainly fun-loving (I'm a amateur comedian/smartass), I'm self-aware, creative (I write, draw, paint), I'm spontaneous, traditional, love the holidays, down-to-earth and a good listener...I don't talk as much as I write. I love to travel to new places, I'm dependable and honest. My outlook is positive - and the weather never stops me from doing anything. I am strong yet gentle, playful yet mature, enjoy good coffee, camping, bbqs, reading, sappy movies, foot rubs, music (a big part of my life), good wine, stargazing, candlelight, crackling fire, hiking, biking, art, theater, golf, garage saling, meandering through bookstores, massages, traveling the back roads (not afraid to put my truck in four-wheel-drive mode or taking the top off my convertible and flyin' down the highway), picnics, reading the Sunday paper....

How open-minded are you? Do you want to take a cruise this year? Go to a few concerts? Make love in the park? Golf at Pebble Beach? Ride the roller coaster at the New York New York hotel? If given the chance, I would love to learn about everything you desire, the sensual woman that you keep secret, the silly little girl that likes to giggle when she is safe and happy, the woman I can snuggle with on the couch and whisper sweet promises to after a long movie. I want to be that educated, affectionate, confident man you've been looking for. I want you to be the fun-loving, sexy, sensitive and caring woman I've been searching for..

The fun we can share intimately would be be wild, spontaneous and creative. I enjoy the female body to it's utmost...which in turn pleasures you! The female body is so beautiful and you will know I respect it by how I touch. My appetite is huge and never ending. ....rose petals scattered on the bed or lots of lit candles in a special place, walking on the beach, or just enjoying each other in the hot tub under the stars..romance is the music to life....and we will dance every chance we get....

Sharing moments of passion, opening up, letting me in.... and then letting me hold you so tight so that I can keep and protect you forever...playing with your hair, hearing your heart beat next mine..things I will never take for granted. A woman who has entered my life...so sensuous so passionate and beautiful ~ with skin so soft, breasts so supple...tracing my finger around them so slowly...and looking in your eyes...I whisper, we talk...there is nothing more beautiful than this....

I am more concerned about the quality of the "whole package" than appearances so let us just enjoy each other ~ a man and a woman, friends, people in a big world that found each other against so many odds. So before you put this aside, just hit "reply" now....and let us begin by creating our tomorrows...this is how things can start for us...follow the sun with me....lets be the couple that others say "aren't they lucky!"

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Making love in the park...details to come later.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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