The philosophy I live by is don't judge, but always stay true to my personal set of values. I like to meet new friends and gain new perspectives. Commitment-wise, let's go slow and see where things lead. On Sunday afternoons I like to catch up with friends on the phone or mail. For me a perfect date is dinner in so we can get to know each other better. When I go out, I might hang out at the bookstore, or just go wherever. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I'm not changing my life, I'm just turning up the volume on my leisure time. I look forward to hearing from you soon.