Kinky gay man here looking to play with other men and boys (over 18 please, and even more likely these days over 25). I usually prefer to be bottom/sub, though I do switch (particularly for kink play). Major kinks for me are Dom/sub roles, paddles, canes, straps, spanking, body punching, breath control and watersports. Minor kinks are too many to list. I live in the Avenues part of Salt Lake City in a house with a play space/dungeon with a bondage bed, sling, spanking bench and lot of toys. My day job is an R&D Engineer and I've worked from home during the pandemic - and covid has not been kind to the waistline (that is a work in progress now).

My Ideal Person I'm not particularly looking for a long term relationship, but if that happens fine - I've been through a few of them. My ideal next partner would be a pragmatic dominant man who prefers to top. He's gainfully employed and financially stable (as I am). He has enough of a kink streak to want to do all the kink fantasy in erotic stories, but smart enough to know it's easier to write fantasy than live fantasy.

Probably somewhere in his mid 40s to late 50s...I have no set-in-stone physical characteristics, I've been in relationships with a muscle guy, an older black guy, a twink and an Asian guy - attitude and intelligence push my buttons more than