When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. I want to stop being the "nice guy" and let my Id play for awhile. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. The philosophy I live by is that you don't have to be loud and gregarious to be interesting. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I look forward to putting a smile on your face. I'm not changing my life, I just want to improve it to the tune of one woman. If you contact me please include a face pic.