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rm_sfdiva 50 / F
"Designer p***y...yeah, it comes in flavors..."
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rm_sfdiva 50/F
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WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. [B]UPDATE - I'm guessing that it wasn't clear enough below, huh? Let me make it crystal right quick - This is an adult site. I'm not in a relationship, so I don't have to play games...I'm not here to turn anyone else's ho into a husband (some will say anything YOU want to hear TO KEEP THAT STEADY NANA CUMMIN...LMAO). As previously stated, I'm here for drama-free fun...if you're in a committed relationship & your significant other has issues with you meeting folks (ESPECIALLY those of you in so-called "open" relationships - save that ish for the next profile you come to), keep it pushin'. Ladies, if you have issues with "YOUR" MAN coming at me - SAVE THAT BULLSHIT FOR YOUR SO-CALLED MAN. I AM A GROWN-ASS WOMAN, have been for a minute now. I don't appreciate having to deal with high-school ass BULLSHIT that I didn't create, & I WON'T BE explaining situations that aren't/shouldn't be a situation...I'll be DAMNED if I'm paying for YOU to fuck up MY experience on here. Work out your relationship drama elsewhere, cuz I AIN'T THAT ONE. If you're backwards enough to leave your password out there or your shit open for the world to see, then you DESERVE whatever it is that you have coming to YOU...JUST COUNT ME OUT OF YOUR BULLSHIT. PLEASE let me know if you need further clarification. And now, back to our regularly scheduled program...lol[/B] Before I forget...this is for [B][U][SIZE 2]STRAIGHT MEN ONLY[/SIZE][/U][/B]; if you've [B][U]ever[/U][/B] contemplated being with another man ([COLOR purple]BI-CURIOUS GENTLEMEN, [B][U]THIS MEANS YOU[/U][/B]!!![/COLOR]), tg/tv/ts ([COLOR purple][B]sorry - you can convince yourself otherwise & call them whatever you choose - they were MALES when they arrived here and "MALE" is what's checked on their birth certificate...THEREFORE, THAT STILL QUALIFIES AS ANOTHER MAN!!![/B]) or anything that wasn't [B][U]BORN human & already owning a vagina, CERVIX, OVARIES & UTERUS[/U][/B], please keep it movin'[/COLOR]. No winking, no chatting (unless you're just LOOKING FOR PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP!!!). Nothing peral; please respect my lifestyle choice as I respect yours. If that's you then go do you...just not here. [size 2][color deep pink][b]Oh, I'm completely straight...there's absolutely [u]NOTHING[/u] a woman can do for me that a well-equipped man or a well-placed bullet can't do BETTER.[/b] Strictly (you fill in the blank...) - I meant [u]EXACTLY[/u] what I said when I checked I'm looking for [u]MEN[/u]!![/size 2][/color] How are you? How is it that I DO get down?! I am an acquired taste, but once you have had this flavor upon your lips, no other will do...lol Let's see - unique is a word that I think best describes me.....I don't think I'm the average chick on the street; not to seem conceited, I just look at things differently than most people. So in saying that, no question why I'm here on Adult FriendFinder ;)... Fun is the object, so that's what I like to have...whether it be shooting pool, beating you down in some dominoes (lol), watchin a movie, hangin out with cool peeps, sippin a lil sumthin ;), ya know? If it ain't fun, it ain't me... I'm looking for friends, that could grow into something more...should we grow, I'm in need of someone that's insatiable (yes, I do mean just that...getting freaky on the regular is a big issue!). Easy going, laid back, open-minded, non-judgemental and always in the mood. ;) Sexually confident and committed to the art of satisfaction. Confident in other aspects, as well -blunt but tactful (usually! lol), sassy, sarcastic and very social. I'm very honest & straight-forward (ask anyone that knows me well; it can be painfully so at times!). Yeah, I`m something of a brat...but only the best kind of brat...lol I love to laugh, I'm a chocolaholic (and no, I'm not referencing candy bars)...and I`m a freak! (Shhhh! We'll keep that last part to ourselves!) [b]I'm seeking stress- & drama-free fun[/b]...and no, it doesn't HAVE to be sexual (but I probably won't complain if it is...). I'm grown, D/D free (as you too MUST BE...), and don't have time for ish games; I need someone that's ready for whatever the second I call (did I mention that doesn't mean that it always has to be sex?). If you're here for silliness and aren't serious about the punnany, please keep it movin'. Commitment-wise, it's whatever happens, happens; I'm not looking, but I'm not opposed to it, either... if there's that vibe & it becomes serious later on, that's all good too. I know that there's a few [b]REAL[/b] men in here (sorry, but age & a dick don't automatically make you that!), so feel free to drop me a line with any naughty thoughts or wishes you care to share...I promise not to bite (unless you ask me to, of course!). Face pics are available upon request.

My Ideal Person FYI: I am not here to get with every man on this site and being on here does not minimize my qualities as a lady or my standards in being approached like one.

Chefs know that the secret to a delicious meal is in using top-notch ingredients and taking the proper time to prepare it. Apply this philosophy to me & run with it...I am looking for a friendship with unlimited possibilities. For me, sex does not begin in the bedroom, it begins when I meet the person. Intelligence is MANDATORY; the mind is a wasted tool for many (PLEASE DON'T STEP TO ME if you're one of these folks that used the writing ideas to write your ENTIRE profile...there's absolutely nothing less sexy than being totally unoriginal, for real!!). A nice combination of business & street (yes, there is such a thing!!).

I'm definitely seeking the homieloverfriend...you need to be someone I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex!! Great conversation - I'm looking for someone that recognizes value in getting to know someone; yes, sex is fabulous but there should be some connectivity other than foreplay involved (definitely not discounting foreplay, though!!), don't you think? If you don't, this probably isn't the spot for you...and small-minded, wannabe know-it-all individuals need not step to me either - YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. If you can't handle a thought process other than your own, or an opinion that may not necessarily agree with you 24/7/365, grow up and keep it movin' until you realize that "different strokes for different folks" is a beautiful thing. I despise liars & fakes, & please do not waste your time or mine with head games...they're such a major turn-off.

The ability to not take yourself too seriously, and a great sense of humor are imperative!!!

Foreplay is highly underrated & when done right is a HUGE turn on. Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is as important as sex; plenty before penetration is a good thing.

mmmmmmm...a skilled tongue (love a good kisser - reveals so much about other aspects!) accompanied by a big, thick (did I mention I'm a chocolaholic?!)...oops, there I go running off at the mouth again...

I'm very oral...question is, are you?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Prince, MJB, A. Keys...3000+ songs in the Ipod, you guess
which...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Let's just spend a little time. Do a little more. Say
what's in our hearts. Give each other all. Nothing
more to do. I'm right here with you. Let's just
lay down. (Let's just stay in today) Let's just
lay down I wanna just love you in this special way. Let's
just lay down I just wanna? (Share you) I just wanna? (watch
you) We should take the? (Time)To (Be in love) We just have
to? (Choose) What we wanna? (Do) I miss you (Yeah) Can I kiss
you? (Yeah) Let's spend sometime. I wanna just love
you in this special way. Let's just lay down Can we just
focus on us? Wherever you want, The bathroom, the living
room (Lay down) The kitchen, The bedroom. (Lay down) Lay
down baby. Please. Just? Let me? Let you? Lay down...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Prince - he is the consummate freak; there isn't anything
that I can imagine NOT doing with him...& Morris Chestnut;
that skin & those lips...mmmmm!!! Oh, & Ice Cube...he's
always been so FINE to me...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 50 / female
  • The Bay, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: December 27, 1973
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 3 in / 160-162 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Current college student
Occupation: Clerical
Race: Black
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 38 / 85 D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Either
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