I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I'm pretty busy.