Hey there! I'm an upwardly mobile professional, highly educated and passionate by nature. I'm your not your typical married but available husband. I love my soulmate and wife, but need to keep passion and fire alive around me. In my free time I enjoy soccer, the outdoors, and natural beauty. Commitment-wise, I'd prefer a discreet relationship that gives us both what we're missing. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I am not interested in losing my wife and soulmate, but extramarital affairs add excitement to a relationship - and reinforce that I am joined to my wife through choice, not slavery.

My feelings on one-night stands are that they are perfectly acceptable, as long as that is what both parties are looking for and can be honest about it. Conversely a one night stand can never have the same impact as a cultivated relationship.

Foreplay is frequently underrated. I prefer to induce my partners petit mort before penetration is achieved.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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