Some times we stop and ask our selves why we feel bad or why we are in a bad situations or on other word we say we want to be good or better persons in our world or in our society....now we differentiate between the good side and the bad side or the positive feelings and the negative ones but we have to be honest with our selves and confess with our mistakes because in our phase or stage of change we will strength on our good side and work to develop it as well we will work as much as we can to decrease our bad side or behaviors, And at this moment we have to say that we start to become good persons :)