Whew, let's see! I am a fun-loving, sarcastic, creative, slighty wild and... normal woman. Normal is the most important part, I find!! I don't even have an ASBO; which I feel is quite an achievement living in Birmingham. I currently spend half my time here in the UK and half my time in California. It's chaotic, but never gets boring! You can always depend on me for honesty - so I will be honest right off the bat, to clear up any confusion. I don't believe that we should own our partners. They are not possessions. Though it's human to feel it sometimes, I don't believe that jealousy is healthy - I do think that personal freedom is healthy. I am in a polyamorous relationship with a wonderful woman (who lives in California). This does NOT mean that I am a swinger, nor am I looking for quick, sleazy threesomes, nor am I an easy journey into the bedroom (or shower, or wherever else... ~grins~) What it does mean is that I will treat you with all the care and respect in the world; but I am not looking to get married. A good friend with benefits would be absolutely wonderful. I don't even mind the friendship without the benefits. Not everything has to be about sex, now does it? ;-) Things I love: ~ poetry ~ playing the guitar ~ indie, alternative, rock - and a little splash of Poker Face ~ tiny, interesting bars and clubs packed with bodies ~ banter, fiestiness, wit ~ Sailor Jerry - before they pillaged the recipe... ~ travelling to as many places as my wandering feet can manage ~ creative people, passionate people, intelligent people ~ Ellen Von Unwerth ~ Dita Von Teese If your tastes lean to something a little richer than vanilla, you can find me on an interesting website called Fetlife. My name there is Lady_Hanami. Don't be shy - I always bite... ;-)

My Ideal Person There is no such thing as an ideal person... but I enjoy people who are genuine, true to themselves and I do enjoy fiestiness!