On a lighter note... a little bit more about me. Apparently I am a bit of a chatter box once you get me started. I can be a very good listener too, but I will talk A LOT if you give me the chance. Even though I am often seen as strong and outgoing, inside I am quite shy. I’ve been told I have a lot of confidence in myself; I don’t really. I’m just very good at hiding my insecurities, unless you ask. I don’t like drama. I will avoid drama and confrontation at all costs. I really hate it, I really can’t handle it. This usually proves to be my downfall because I end up letting people walk all over me instead of telling them that there is a problem between us. However, it works to my benefit because I don’t start any problems where there isn’t any. Also, I’m good at keeping my mouth shut (even though I am a chatter box) because I don’t want to cause any more distress. However, be warned, once I let it out, it won’t stop. I don’t have a filter, and it is extremely difficult for me once I open up and say what’s on my mind to try and turn it off. All courtesy is out the window and I will be blunt and cruel and far from polite. This is a very rare occurrence because it often causes more problems than it solves, but like everyone else I do have my breaking point and there is only so much shit I will tolerate before I break. I don’t get mad very often. I just cry about what's upsetting me. But if I’m to the point where I can’t cry because I’m so mad, holy shit back away. There have been less than a handful of times in my life that I’ve been so angry that I was seeing red, not crying and yelling as loud as I can. I will spit fire and it will be ugly. This doesn’t happen though because I just really can’t stand getting that mad. It exhausts me, I’m hoarse afterward and I end up being more upset than I was before. So be forewarned, while you will sooner win the lottery than see this side out of me, it is still there and still a possibility, albeit a very small one. I define myself as a sub. I feel like I am a submissive person in my day to day life as well as in my d/s life. It is a comfortable fit for me. I have my sadistic moments when I'm angry or feeling especially evil, but nothing ever comes of them. At times I am a brat. I enjoy it, although I get into trouble when I do. XD I have occasional kitty tendencies, but I wouldn't define myself as a kitty. I don't share well, which is difficult for me to get over at times. I like was is mine to be MINE. All of this is subject to change as I grow and learn and better understand myself. My hard limit list is now under my Writings if you care to take a look.