Why not Court ME for a change. I’m worth IT I am the realist MAN you will ever meet. I’ll warn you now this is a novel. First about me. 33 years old 5’10” tall 180lbs Black Divorced Single father of one beautiful 3 year old that I have FULL custody of. I’m VERY unique. I come from a diverse background that has seen more experiences in my33 years than someone twice my age. College graduate with a Bachelors’ in Micro Computing Information Systems. I’m an IT engineer and aspiring entrepreneur (aren’t we all ). Things i'm proud of: Being a head and shoulders better father than most sperm donors out here The fact that 2 years ago I weighed 265 and was un-happy with myself. I changed my life and busted my ass and am now a nice trim 180 Things I like to do: Comedy Shows Road Trips Cuddling Listening to music at loud volumes My fav show ever is WEEDS. That **** is Gangsta. If I could find a woman down like that I would be in HEAVEN. I live a life style that is unique to me. My comes first and foremost. I live my life to make hers better. But I’m still a twenty year old at heart. I love hangin with friends, going out, being spontaneous, AND I’m 420 friendly. I’m the kind of per that would roll out to “Apollos” for the best gyros on campus at 1am and still get my up, fed, dropped off to school and make it to work by 8am. Or maybe a snow storm is coming next week and I don’t wanna deal with it so I’ll book flights and tickets and take a cruise for a week. I don’t live by conventional means or philosophy. I live to enjoy every moment as the next isn’t promised. I have a bucket list and I’ve crossed off quite a few things but still have about 50 more. I’m looking for my partner in crime to live the rest with me. I’ll be the bold one and put my short comings out there. I’ve done time. Five years to be exact. If that puts you off you can stop reading now. It was 15 years ago and if you take the time to get to know me you will learn the back story and what that did to change my life. Be that as it may YES I am college educated but by no means am I your average square. I consider myself to carry mad swag and knowledge of the game. I just choose to conduct myself in a fashion that is conducive to being successful. Besides keepin my swag up is my woman’s responsibility. As long as I’m fly to her is all that matters. I’m a hopeless romantic. For five years I entertained myself with about 270 novels over a 100 of which were romance novels. Something about the magical words on those pages imprinted on me. I’m dead serious when I say that I’m really one of those fall head over heels in love court my woman kinda guys. I would describe myself as 50 percent chivalry and 50 percent chauvinist. I’m that guy that will lay his jacket over a puddle of water for you. But I also believe that a ship can only have one captain and that as long as the man is handling his business he EARNS the right to be the captain. And I would def classify myself as an ALPHA male. I love cuddling, random touching, and general puppy love kind of affection. I def have sugar daddy tendencies. I’m a firm believer that the character of a man is judge by the continence of his woman. Thus, how she is dressed, what she’s driving, how she acts, is a direct reflection upon me. I’m very cerebral. I’m a student of human psychology. I have a strong belief in myself and my abilities and can sometimes come off as a bit arrogant or cocky. Maybe I am. But, you have to be to have overcome the odds I have in life. I keep it 100% real. I’ll tell you anything about myself…or yourself….just ask. When I’m struggling I’ll never perp like I’m not. And when I’m UP those that were down for me when I was struggling will be UP with me too. I LOVE MUSIC. You’ll hear loud music thumping from my house before you’ll ever hear the TV on. I listen to music while doing about everything. I love Hip Hop and R&B. Also into jazz and some other stuff like Corinne Bailey Rae and John Myer. Movies I’m all over the place. Sci-fi to action to comedy to Twilight. Our first Date: Brio and the Funny Bone?? Or I'm cool with just jumpin in the benzo, blazzin, bumpin whatever just pearlin around town. Swoop through campus and smash some Apollos. Now that issh goes hard!!!

My Ideal Person First and for most HONESTY. Game recognizes game. I don’t tolerate liars. One lie and I’ll dismiss you no matter how small. I’m so sick of all these perps I’ve run into. Women really have the game twisted when it comes to dealing with a real genuine man...
YES I do tend to spoil my women. But, have your own goals, drive, and aspirations. I’m looking for someone to help me grow my kingdom….not drain it dry.
Be ok with 420. It’s a part of my life right now. It may not all ways be so but for now it is.
Must LOVE kids as obviously in a long term capacity you would become an active part of my daughter’s life.
Above average intelligence and an absolute refusal to be a society conformist.
I tend to dig white females but sistas please don’t hesitate. You never know….
I love a woman with curves but not quite a BBW. Size range from 4-12. Any larger than a 14-16 probably won’t be my cup of tea.
A woman that can be just as spontaneous, care free, and responsible as I am and that really just enjoys seizing the moment and doing whatever at THAT particular moment
I’m looking for a woman that has the same mentality as “Nancy” from Weeds. If you don’t even know about the show Weeds than you probably aren’t up my alley.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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