let me be honest: I am married but sex has been absent for years. This guy still has needs! So its not about cheating but having fun and clean sex:) I am shy at first, but soon come out of myself. I enjoy intellectual discussions as long as its not politics. I am a musician and have very broad tastes musically. I love walking in the countryside in lonely and wild places, and I love to do photography in those places. I also read a lot - my Kindle is nearly worn out! I prefer taking sex slowly and gently - gradually building things up until the world simply disappears and all there is left is gorgeous pleasure. I have a great love of oral sex - and you would certainly climax before me! I am NOT interested in anal. But I am willing to experiment and try new things - hell, at my age I should be able to teach you a thing or two. I really prefer younger women (my missus is very young looking) so am looking mainly at 20s and 30s. Yes I am old enough to be their dad, but I am not wanting to play on the daddy thing - its just the way I roll. And we all have preferences, and I know there are those young ladies who prefer it with someone older. If they want a daddy figure, I guess I'll play along, role play is always worth trying in sex. By now (if you're still reading) you will have gathered I am mainly after nsa fun. Although It would be nice to form a friendship 'with privileges' as a regular buddy would be great. Anything more and you better be offering the world!