When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. For me a perfect date is anything as long as it ends back at my place with our clothes off. When I'm at home alone, a lot of personal projects and hobbies keep me occupied. I'm in the mood for a relationship I don't have to define, but it still feels good. I want to get out of the rut my life is in. I look forward to seeing how the online dating world works. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy.