The philosophy I live by is if it gives you that adrenaline rush, in or out of bed, it was worthwhile. I get along best with people who are always looking for new people, places and experiences. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I want to find a friend who's also friendly on a physical level. When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. I look forward to hearing from you soon. sooo after all the bullshit, you want to be with a firefighter?