Hi! I'm an easy going, experimental type of person who's looking for complete inhibition in a partner. I'm a busy professional back in Chicago with some very strong sexual urges that need to be satisfied. I have put on a few pounds these last several years but I am still in good shape and I am very active..I've been slowly shedding those additinal pounds here and there. I am fun to be around and most people find me very easy to relax with. I love travel and adventure and I have a passion for exploration. I am looking for a partner who is as curious and insatiable as I am! I am very open in the bedroom. I like it down and dirty but I also enjoy passionate kissing and caressing. I love it when a woman spreads her legs and then lets me massage and softly stroke her inner thighs as we kiss. My fingers gently caressing and softly rubbing her lips... I prefer longer sessions. For me it's about my partner..how many orgasms can she have...or how many different ways can she have orgasms! I like to cum two or three times each session - I also have a kinkier side that you can ask me about! I'm open for drinks or dinner to see if we click. Sex is always better when two people click on an emotional level.

My Ideal Person I'm more into personality than body shape. Women should be comfortable discussing their needs and passions. I have dated several plus-sized women who turned out to be incredible lovers...very open and adventurous! I can also be very discreet...I like to date attached women who are not being fulfilled by their partners...they can be very passionate and kinky!

A woman who loves to mastubate and/or play with toys is a huge plus. I love women who know want they want and are willing to say so. My biggest turn on is watching a woman caress herself and then asking me slowly join in as her excitement grows! Her fingers spread her lips open as my tongue finds her growing wetness...

I am looking for more than a one night stand. Although the first time with someone is so exciting, sex gets better as you get to know someone. Right now I'm interested in more of a friends with benefits arrangement. I'm not looking for an immediate long term relationship but I would be very happy to see something develop!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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