Some folks would say that I am smart and handsome, Master's degree, great job in the govt, retired military, and well-adjusted emotionally, although it's a big mystery how and why the last part happened. I have a well-developed love of lounging, as well as really hot and cold showers and food so spicy it hurts. I have a ridiculously strong work ethic when it comes to my job, but the rest of the time I'm extraordinarily sexy and can be unproductive - LOL. I might be the only person in our generation that reads and I like to claim that I drink and then give up after only two or three glasses of wine - not!! But I don't drink and drive so that means more time for the kissing and cuddling aspect of lounging..... I enjoy cooking and a fine wine. I play sports to keep my manly figure and enjoy many various things from growing my own vegetables to my bonsai collection....... I have a house out in the mountains of Linden and commute into Fairfax everyday for work. I tend to be active and have always been daring and adventurous (must be that military thing). That said, I like to go out to nice restaurants or stay cuddled up on the couch with good food, good wine and great company. So if you are looking for a good guy, look no further. Not looking to rush into marriage again but looking for someone who wants to share a monogamous relationship with a wonderful guy and see where it goes....... I am not a member but my handle is "frogmanor" so (gee male) write me if you are a member........... If you are really good, you can find me on FB......... Oh, and the stats you want: DWM, 6'1", 185 lbs, D/D free, a smoker who is trying to quit, professional and a gentleman in all aspects. Interestingly, I am hot to some, cute to others, and I suspect not at all handsome to a random few.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a friend and someone who is confident with their life and their independence. Right now, I am not ready to get married again (lawyers really hurt) but anything can happen down the road.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Two beautiful women and a jacuzzi

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Shakira

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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