Hi there! I'm a 51-year-old, self employed business type looking for trysts, assignations and erotic sex action with most types of mature ladies. I’m above average height, though with a touch of the middle-aged spread (but I’m working on it). I’m generally smart, clean-shaven and well turned out. I’m also rational, thoughtful, and even-tempered. I guess I’ve reached that stage of life where I’ve become laid back, quietly confident and at ease with myself. I don’t mind spending money, as I tend to live for today. The things I am not, are - loud, aggressive or pushy. However, time is not standing as still as it used to in my youth, hence I would prefer to cut to the chase and forgo (at least some of) the ritual of ‘getting to know you’ chit chat. I feel that when one reaches middle age, the glass that was once filling is now beginning to empty. So, one needs to make a move while the going is good. Regarding relationships. I was not thinking about serious relationships when I signed up to this site. However, who knows where fate will lead? I go with the flow. Sexually, I prefer 1-on-1 (though in the past, I have taken on two ladies at once). I’m not into anything to far out – just your regular vanilla flavours of sex and a few mild fetishes (I love hairy beavers and black stockings). I’m not a wham bam thank you mam type, but prefer to take time to savour a woman. Happily, I have a well appointed (and discreet) little love nest which is just right for those naughty afternoon sex sessions. But if you prefer your place or the woods, that would be cool too! So, seize the day, get in touch.

My Ideal Person The kind of ladies I am looking for are good old fashioned, natural, feminine, types, aged between, say, 40 – 65. Ladies who are looking for discreet fun, frolics, sex and excitement, with a laid back kinda guy. I certainly don’t expect you to look like Claudia Schiffer (but if you do, that’s OK too), so please don’t be shy. I like all types of mature ladies - from glamour girls to librarians. Anyhow, if you think you fit the bill (and it’s a pretty broad bill) then please don’t hesitate to get in touch, I’m available most afternoons and evenings and there’s always a nice bottle of wine in the chiller.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Led Zepplin, Jimi Hendrix, Rolling Stones

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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