I'm 50, into playing acoustic guitar (I play paying gigs 2-3 times a month but will not be quitting my day job any time soon!), I'm a fitness enthusiast (work out 3-4 times a week), a voracious reader (I also dabble in creative writing). Lastly, I'm a big sports fan...I'm looking to have a bit of adventure but that said, I'm not commitment-phobic nor do I have a problem with monogamy / exclusivity. I also believe that there is no substitute for experience so I'm looking for women in my demographic (40-60 years old)...As a lover of words I have to say in the short time I've been on the site I am extremely impressed with how well many of the women here express themselves, often with a literary / poetic bent...great reading! It's also refreshing to be among people (albeit in an on-line setting) who own their sexuality and speak of the same in adult terms and tones. After all, what we are here for is quite adult. I've made a promise to myself recently to do my best to populate my life with interesting people. I think I've come to the right place.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman is one who owns her sexuality with no regrets and no second guessing. The only boundaries she adheres to are ones she has set. I love to be in the company of someone who can discuss both Steinbeck and baseball, the films of Woody Allen and the cartoons of Bugs Bunny...also, I'd like a woman who can teach me - not necessarily just in the bedroom, but about art, music and literature - three of my passions. There is always something to be learned about all of this and far too little time. Like it says in the Grateful Dead song "Box Of Rain"..."Such a long, long time to be gone and a short time to be there..."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bruce Springsteen, Bob Dylan, The Band, Warren Zevon

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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