I'm an artist, a hedonist, a free spirit, and insatiable, if nothing else. I exist with passion, intensity, sensuality, and expressiveness. I enjoy all things erotic, beautiful, and interesting. My primary passion in life is music, then come my friends, and everything else in the world is a far distant third and beyond. I'm as laid back as I am straight forward; I can be down-to-earth and cool with just hanging around but I also cut out the crap by being brutally honest and I can readily admit that I have the sexual morals of a man and a filthy mind. When it comes to the bedroom, I'm a giver, a screamer, a submissive (but incredibly aggressive), and nearly equal parts masochist and sadist. I get lost in my partner and we worship each other's bodies and tear one another apart, even if it's just a one night stand...although I'm not too fond of those, particularly. Out of the bedroom, I'm a fantastic cook, a night owl, an avid reader, and totally spontaneous. I love spoiling the people in my life with awesome homecooked food as well as independent music and movies they may not be aware of. I love to laugh and make other people laugh. I like living life rather than watching it, so I tend not to watch too much TV. I'm brutally honest and afraid of practically nothing. Ultimately, my goal is to find a girl to fool around with on a semi-regular basis alone, and/or with my male partner watching or joining in. I haven't been able to enjoy being with another woman or being with a man AND a woman for a while, and I'd like for it to be in my life as much as it's been on my mind.

My Ideal Person I'm a fairly confident woman, and I know what I want. I want someone who is open-minded, who is intelligent, who is attractive, who isn't afraid to give into their pleasures and temptations every now and then, who is close enough to my age to relate to me in and out of bed.

Honesty and being open are key. You'd better be up front about where you stand with any drugs or diseases, I WILL NOT take you if you're married and your partner doesn't know or approve, and I expect you to be honest about who you're with, and how serious it is or isn't. I've been the woman on the other end of the affair before, and I'm not helping you do that to someone else...I'm fun, but I have integrity. Plus I don't want to deal with anyone else's relationship drama.

I'm also not looking for this to turn into anything serious, but if it does, I'm not going to go out of my way to stop it. Right now I'm just looking for someone else who wants to have some casual fun from time to time.

Oh, and FYI, I usually like to talk to someone a few times online or on the phone before I meet them in person. I like to get a good feel for who someone is and what my chemistry with them is like before getting physical. I realize that may be a bit old fashioned, but that's my comfort zone and respecting it--and me in general--gets you further in the long run.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Death Cab for Cutie, Depeche Mode, Elbow, Front Line Assembly,
Imogen Heap, John Mayer, Pete Yorn

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've always fantasized about being the center of a
gangbang. It would be nice to have a number of men to choose
from, to be able to turn them on and get them ready for me by
showing them with another person there what I'd do
with them. Being the center of attention and having several
people touching me, pleasing me, tasting me, filling me,
just sounds incredibly exciting me. The sensory overload
it would probably be would be incredible.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I think plenty of celebrities are attractive, but I don't
really fantasize about them. I get off more thinking about
people I'm already sleeping with, or could hypothetically
be sleeping with in real life, especially if I can mentally
put them in a situation I haven't seen them in before.
For example, fantasizing about a current boyfriend, but
in the context of him being a stranger picking me up at a bar
and fucking me silly.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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