I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. When I'm at home alone, I divide my time between the television and/or fixing things. I want to find a friend who's also friendly on a physical level and ring out the playful side of me. When I go out, it's generally a quick round trip to Blockbuster or dinner out invitation with but occasionally a day out doing the abnorm. Commitment-wise, we can just be good friends who want to have a little fun together which doesn't mean I'm closed out, just not looking. I'm in the mood for a cute women to catch my eye, not lustfully but maybe catch my attention that way playfully when not even trying at times. I look forward to writing you back though I'm not always articulate to what I'm trying to express. If you contact me please include a clothed picture. You can express your willingness to share a more revealing sexier picture, and I can determine if and when it might beautifully hold a positive value. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to figure out who I've become and what to do to improve my leisure time. I think I have already slowed down in my life, just don't want to stop.