I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work....I am extraordinarily tender and sensual.I am looking for someone who understands a relationship is give-and-take, and that life is not always a fairy-tale (although I try to make it one as much as possible). I've walked a long, winding road, but have traveled the last part of this journey alone - it's time to change that. I'm looking for an honest friend who wants and deserves the same - someone athletic, funny, passionate, kind, honest and adventurous. (not necessarily in that order) If you'd rather see New Zealand than New York, I may be the one you're searching for... If there is kindness in your heart -