What to say? Well I'm not gonna play any games telling you all the things I'm not. The things I am. I'm married. My wife whom I love with all my heart & will always be my best friend no longer wants sex. That being said: having more than 1 best friend isn't a bad thing either. When my wife went through that MENopause thingy she lost all sexual desire. I'm here looking to find a lady to be a friend and sex partner. My wife and I have talked about this several times & she is ok with it. I hate asking her for sex cause I know she receives no pleasure from it. We were into swinging till that dreaded change changed her. She has seen me with other women, as I have seen her with other men. I think this is why she's willing to allow me to play with other women. She knows where my heart is. Well if you think you might like a friend with bennies then here I am.