PLEASE NOTE I'M ONE OF THE VERY FEW MEN THAT HAVE BEEN CONFIRMED BY THIS WEBSITE! THAT CHECK MARK TO THE RIGHT OF MY USER NAME (PECS29) VERIFIES THAT MY AGE, WEIGHT, HEIGHT, WHERE I LIVE & PICS ARE REAL. "ARE YOU SICK OF OUT OF SHAPE, UNORIGINAL, UNINTELLIGENT, UNCHALLENGING & RUDE PUSHY GUYS THAT SEND YOU RANDOM D*CK PICS THAT HOPELESSLY HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO TREAT OR SEDUCE A WOMAN PROPERLY? About Me: I am extremely affectionate in public or in private with a woman(if you're within arms length of me, my hands or mouth will be on you somewhere for sure always). I'm open minded, giving, driven, challenging, assertive, bluntly honest and direct, playful, articulate, passionate, intelligent (Mensa candidate), loving, very sarcastic (sorry no ones perfect) creative, adventurous (I skydive, shark dive, bungee jump, sculler (rower), whitewater raft and basically anything else that could kill me I'm in), total exhibitionist, live for traveling and learning and a hopeless romantic gentleman first, a DOM/TOP or whatever labels that society has to put on someone like me second. I own a few different businesses and by accident became a renowned and published online dating, human sexuality & dating researcher/writer/radio show host under the pen name Passionate Ben. I'm also a financially secure gentleman if you’re wondering. I say this only to assure you I don't survive off Spaghetti O's every night (but who doesn't love them really, especially with meatballs), I don't drive a rust bucket of a car, nor do I live in my parents basement or have any roommates. I don't get jealous, controlling, or possessive of your guy friends, family, career, or other girlfriends. Either you're with someone you trust; confident in yourself and selfless enough that you want the other per to be happy and fulfilled always! Why is this so damn hard for people to understand nowadays? I'm a true gentleman opening every car door you will ever get into, ordering for a woman, but only after I find out what she wants to eat first by asking her and paying for everything always. (No, I'm NOT a shallow superficial Sugar Daddy or suffer from Macho-ism disease please be aware. I simply treat the woman in my life like a special little girl always). I want to take care of a woman, NOT because she needs me to, NOT because I have to, NOT because it's expected from me, because I truly WANT to take care of my special woman in my life always! I'm spontaneous and very wild, ever wanted to have sex or give/receive oral in public places, but your guy didn’t want to? Don’t worry you’ll probably be the one saying, "Here? Right now? You’re crazy! " FOREPLAY. The word most guys dread. My favorite part about sexual intimacy and exploration. Endless hours upon days of long sensual, erotic, rough and kinky foreplay are fine by me. You must LOVE giving and receiving oral sex all the time (basically have a severe oral addiction that is never satisfied) like me or I'm afraid it would never work with us. Ever been with a guy that didn’t go down on you, didn’t go down often enough, or so-so at it or completely bad at it? I’m so sorry if that's been the case. I love going down on a woman constantly anywhere and anytime for literally hours on end. Did you ever see Luke Skywalker with his light saber in the Star Wars movies? You should see me use a vibrator on you; I’m like a Jedi Knight in the vibrator arts! I LOVE role playing and whatever you can imagine I’m probably up for or done it. I absolutely LOVE giving & receiving tons of dirty talk in & out of the bedroom. Nothing hotter and an absolute must in foreplay and during sex with me.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: Things that turn me on and looking for in an ideal woman. I LOVE tasteful tattoos on a woman, I think they’re very erotic & individualistic (I have 5 and counting) but if you don't have any that's ok.

The sexiest thing about a woman to me is her intelligence/emotional/mental depth.

A close second would be her sexuality, which would be wild, open, creative, kinky, raw, submissive, giving and spontaneous.

If I was Superman, my sexual/physical kryptonite would be a woman wearing these things or had these physical traits listed: Collars (especially o-ring collars), chokers, knee & thigh high boots, high heels, vinyl/rubber/leather/latex/pvc outfits, sequined outfits, large breasts, a great smile used often, tattoos, role playing outfits, costumes & uniforms, hoop and dangly earrings, super glossy lipstick & gloss, tight very low riding jeans, short/tight miniskirts & cocktail dresses and of course the classic pigtails.

A woman that will be my sexually submissive muse...I can be a little sadist (paddles, floggers, canes I have them all to make your body tremble with sheer delight) role playing something different every night to be lost in our own endless kinky imaginations, dirty talk by phone or in person that I promise will make you wet and shaky for days on end.

Or maybe I just tie you up from head to toe and blindfold you, so I can do as I please with your beautiful submissive body, which is all mine to play with, explore and sexually torture in the best ways imaginable for literally days on end.

A woman that is sexually spontaneous ANYWHERE, ANYTHING and ANYTIME only with me!

A fit sexy body. I can't lie a physically fit body turns me on in a woman to no end and I need that, but that doesn't mean you need to be skinny or a size 2 either ok.

Devotion. Devoted to me in every way imaginable. You are mine and I am yours. I don't want a commitment between us, I want a total healthy sexual, physical, mental, and emotional ADDICTION to each other.

Commitments come and go, made up of mostly hollow words, actions and promises between two people. But true addictions can last a lifetime, which is what I am endlessly longing and seeking to no end.

A woman that LOVES to dress sexy & provocative anywhere we go all the time. All eyes on you all the time, regardless of where we go would be perfect by me!

To me this signals a woman who is acutely confident in her body, herself and her sexuality.

It also makes me feel lucky to have you in my life, knowing that I'm the only person that gets to take you home, to the car, the mall, the dark alley behind the bar or restaurant and have you do whatever I want or I can do whatever I want to your beautiful body.

A woman that is open minded enough to at least explore the idea of being sexually submissive, who just needs the right gentleman to guide her into a perfect and always taken care of happy little BDSM angel.

Passionate Ben

P.S. If I find the right woman regardless of where you live in the world; a webcam, phone and a plane ticket is all we need to start things off.

Wat zijn uw favoriete muzikanten of bands?:
Metallica, Seether, Saliva, Chevelle, Staind, Seven Dust, Lincoln Park, Shinedown, Disturbed,

Deel één van uw favoriete seksuele fantasieën. Houdt u niet in!:
Too many to tell! : )

Over welke locatie voor een seksuele ontmoeting fantaseert u?:
Een bewegend voertuig (bijv. auto), Een vliegtuig, Een donker steegje, Een bioscoop, Onder een waterval, Een pashokje in een winkel, Een lift, Waar dan ook, Adult Movie Theater, In a church

Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Ik heb regelmatig cyberseks.

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