bi mwm not inot one night stands. Looking for a married bud who wants to stay married but wants a long term relationship 53 5' 8 clean shaven face, blonde/grey, 230 but loosing, Married, and looking for same in a long term relationship who is NOT wanting to leave their wife and who IS wanting a stable, long term buddy. Gays and non-married's need not apply. Not into facial hair, cross dressing, drugs (poppers are a drug), pain, bears, marks, scat. Don't want a guy with a drinking problem or who smokes all the time. I like gardening, walking in the woods, archery, fishing, canoeing, camping, woodcarving, woodworking, in general working with my hands, Sauna, cooking, BBQ-ing, sushi, occassional cigar and a beer with a buddy. Not really into sports or watching sports. Into kissing, making out, rimming, sucking, getting fucked. Want to explore with another guy. Bottom in fucking but I would say versitile in everything else. I mostly like guys from 21 to 53, white (sorry its my preference), Guys that are active not couch potatoes. Even though I am heavy at the moment I tend to like guys with a regular build and a full head of hair. Has his head together and is not in a rush to get into bed. Want to take some time to know you. Eventually I want us to meet each others families so you need to act and dress like a regular guy. I can not host and if your a "LETS DO THIS RIGHT NOW!" kind of guy im not your man. I am looking for a guy to make a regular buddy situation with and is discrete and understands the limitations that we must work around to make it fit our schedules so it stays a nice and tidey discrete but mutually FUN situation. If this sounds like what your looking for email me and tell me what your looking for (No one line emails please) and lets see where this may lead us.