I haven't been bothered with the online side of things but needs musts... I'm looking for a regular couple, older woman or fellow mutual pleasure lovers! I'm 30, first got on the scene at 21 and explored my sexuality as well as other people's. I get off on mutual pleasure not selfish desires and expect the same. Can do quick and sleazy but prefer long nights of exploration.

My Ideal Person Open minded, conversational and preferably intelligent people. Someone who loves alternative stuff not just mainstream stuff ie. prefers a good youtube session than watching shite on TV.

Sex-wise, well... that's all down to connection. I can do rough one minute and slow the next. I treat sex like music - depends on the mood right? So in short, I'm looking for a connection rather than the 'perfect' little toy.