'm bright, energetic, and have a great sense of humor -I've even been known to laugh at myself on occasion! I'm passionate, sensual and romantic. You will never be lacking for affection! I've been told that I'm a great cook (thanks, Grandma!) I enjoy cooking very much, and it would be great if you like to cook too! There is something very sensual and intimate about preparing a meal together. I am a fantastic Aunt according to my nephews. I love , and would welcome a man who has them - I would love your as my own - I would not think of them as stepchildren. I enjoy exercise, and want to stay healthy - I'm not the body builder type - I actually have hips! (think Marilyn Monroe on a smallerscale). I love seeing new places and experiencing new things. I enjoy fine wine and good food (there is nothing like fresh seafood), and spending time with family and friends. I enjoy cuddling (fireplace optional), dancing, spending time alone with that special man, movies, sports, entertaining at home, going out on the town, movies (old and new), really good jazz, walking along the beach(cliche, I know, but true!), anything in, on or near the water (I'm new to snorkeling, and love to fish!), church on Sunday mornings followed by reading the Sunday paper cuddling on the sofa - then watching football or doing something outside, gardening, and antiques (buying and refinishing). I appreciate all the life lessons I have had thus far - the good and not so good - they have strengthened me, taught me so much, given me joy, allowed my resiliency to shine through, taught me to appreciate the people I have been blessed to have around me, and helped me learn the value of forgiveness, all of which have played a part in who I am today. I have a good sense of who I am and what is important to me in a relationship, And What am I looking for? Hmmm, sounds so easy, doesn't it, to answer that question? I want to fall in love with that one person who will love me right back! A man who is intelligent and attractive (more than just looks!), who has a great sense of humor, is confident, responsible, accountable, somewhat independent, relatively drama free, reasonably fit, and unreservedly affectionate, who is passionate about the things and people in his life he cares about, who knows his flaws and works to change the things he can, who is forthcoming about his feelings, and who has the time and inclination for a monogamous relationship. He loves life and loves to laugh! He knows that happiness does not come from things, but from inside himself. Many of these things can't be seen the first time you meet someone- they reveal themselves over time. Meeting a woman who is willing to take his time to get to know me, and allowing me time to get to know him is something I admire. There are so many things on so many different levels - to try and set it all to paper is moot. It is very important to me that he care about his family and friends deeply, and that he love God. Honesty, respect (both for himself and for others), the ability to listen, patience, passion, trust - all of these things are important in a relationship. Hopefully he will enjoy some of the same things that I do, and we can build on our relationship by sharing our mutual interests and learning more about each other. He will encourage me to be the best person I can be (as I would him), and understand the importance and value of teamwork in a relationship, and working together towards common goals. I think it is a true sign of strength in a man when he is not be afraid to show his vulnerability - it's kind of sexy, too!