We are couple in love, but cant be with each other as much as we like. Looking for a single (not married),non aggressive guy who likes to go out dancing, dinner and movies, so she can enjoy the things in life that I can't share with her. She can be very passionate with the right guy. We are looking for a long term person, not just a hook up, her needs come first, but it would be ideal if all three could be friends.

My Ideal Person She likes her men tall 5'11 at least, well groomed(goatee Ok), & height, weight proportionate. He would have to have a sense of humor(she thinks she's funny,but I just roll my eyes)and needs to be able to have a normal conversation( not including sex, though not excluding it either). He must like to dance, see live local bands,movies & maybe Ravinia. He must have a kind heart, compassionate, and somewhat sensitive(I know,i know, she needs a girl, but she likes men).