We actually became swingers by accident.while talking one night I told my boyfriend about a crunch I had on one of our neighbors. One day he brought the guy home a told me that I could have him. After it was over we started talking about it. Now we just have to find a girl for him.we have tried so many couple sites, but no success. It has been months and he is starting to feel unwanted, because the only responses we are getting is from men. I already got mine. He deserves someone too. I love him so much and want him to be happy. This is for him so no men, any male responses will be ignored. We are not picky, condoms are a must. The girl has to be caring and open minded. We will get to know her first to make sure she is relaxed and comfortable with the situation. If she enjoys her time share is welcome to come back. (No pressure and no strings) unless she wants it. He always looks to please her before himself. He will do what she is comfortable with. If she chooses to have me involved, then there will be some rules that we will descuss when we start talking.