I'm not like anyone else. I'm both simpler and way more complex. I'm 50 years old and married. But I could be the most interesting person you talk to on this site. I'm completely open and have no drama, but you'll never know what I'm going to do next. I'm completely available and completely taken. Completely sexual and completely cerebral. Completely confident but unsure of myself. Now, if you're still reading after that crazy intro, here's why you should meet up with me: \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* A lot of people would be scandalized at how simply and openly I think about sex. My wife knows I'm here and has her own FWB's. She'll join in with the right woman or couple. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* People say I'm very smart. I've had a series of great jobs working on projects you've probably heard of. I now run my own startup that's growing very fast. Makes for good conversation. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I'm in good shape -- I rock climb at an advanced amateur level and run/bike. And I'm tall (over 6'3"). \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I care about people, especially my friends. And I take the "friends" part seriously. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I like sex to be warm and kinky at the same time. Like a back rub with warm oil that makes you cum in a public place :). We play this funny game with each other with money as the counter of success. And we don't talk to each other in elevators because we are "strangers". When in fact everyone is lonely at a deep level. And everyone wants to stop playing the game and connect with the person next to them. I don't worry about the game. There will be enough of everything I need. I'm looking for connections with like-minded people. People who are not afraid to live. People who love sex. And who don't believe in rules that others have given them. [B]About me:[/B] I'm a student of jazz piano improv and into music of all kinds. I'm a good amateur photographer. Mostly I shoot landscapes but erotic photos can be great foreplay. Professionally I'm a successful startup executive. I have a very cool job where we are making the world a better place. I've been married for more than 20 years. We're both very sexual and enjoy sex with each other and with others. She knows I'm here so anything I do is with full permission and drama free. We are both DDF and play only with condoms.

My Ideal Person I don't believe there is an ideal person. Part of what excites me is the fact that everyone is different. And everyone is different in bed from how they are in life.

I like exhibitionism - mostly because it breaks the rules. I like someone who can be playful and can find creative ways to tease. Physically I like a reasonably athletic build. But I also like curves and variety.

I like women I can talk to. I'm not good at cocktail parties because I'd rather talk to one person I really connect with for an hour than 10 people superficially for five minutes each.