I'm an attached male...so not terribly proud to be here. Have long been faithful, but at the same time, starving sexually for years. Had plenty of experience sowing my wild oats before my marriage...but now having a hard time living without good sex. So Now I guess I'm finally ready to take the plunge, and find again what I feel I deserve. Hate to admit that sex is such an important part of life, but at the end of the day...it is. Not looking for someone who's seeking multiple partners...but rather someone who's in search of an NSA arrangement that may work for both sides down the road. Tend to prefer the understated, even shy type (as opposed to all the exhibitionists I'm seeing online)... But just beacuse a girl is soft-spoken, I know that doesn't necessarily mean she doesnt have a huge sexual appetite beneath it all. And thats exactly what I'm looking for--one to match my own. Seeking someone playful...and I don't mean videogames. I prefer a hike in the forest with a blanket and a bottle of wine. Would like to meet someone who enjoys candlelit dinners, intellectual conversation, and cuddling up on the couch in front of the fireplace, or with a classic film. I like a girl who enjoys dressing up for a night out...as well as for the bedroom. High heels, stockings...a soft sweater and skirt--these drive me crazy. I want a girl who appreciates my hands...enjoys slow, long massages, with liberal amounts of body oil...and is interested in trying new things. Toys? Desserts? Fruit??? Hey, I'm up for anything, as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable! I enjoy licking as much as I like to be licked, and to that end, seeking someone who's as clean and healthy as I am. Due to my situatuon...we'd have to hang at your place. However, I also love roadtrips and often travel solo (am financially set)...so a hotel room on the French or Italian Riviera could also work from time to time :) I hate to say it, but body type is also important (as its should be for you too). I'm fairly fit and in shape/slender with decent abs/muscle tone (6' 2" 175lbs), and I prefer someone likewise, one who is rather slim and petite, although not necessarily short... But I do NOT insist on bone-thin by any means, as I am sensitive to the harmful societal pressures that lead to anorexia and other eating disorders. Hope one may appreciate that I can't upload a photo at the moment--not because i think myself unattractive, but due to reasons of discretion. I've been told I'm not too bad to look at...but that would be for you to judge yourself, of course, if we meet for coffee--no obligations. As I am a pretty good listener and can be patient...I'd actually prefer to take it slowly, perhaps meet up a few times before simply jumping in the sack. Sex is always so much better when you feel at least some sort of connection beforehand, some sort of mutual interest and attraction. We can talk about anything you'd like...be it serious or silly. Then later, we will be in no hurry to explore eachother's bodies...and can take our sweet time to discover exactly how and what makes you feel the best. 'Cause theres nothing better than extended foreplay...until one is to the point of begging for it. Although, then again...a quick impetuous fuck in some secluded spot is often exactly just what the doctor ordered!