Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I am self-employed, I which means I have been very very busy but I do like to have fun. Saying that also, know that I cannot just stop and drive an hour or more away to meet you. I like a hard working woman, a woman that is not afraid of and who is willing to get in the dirt with me to get a job done because I am not afraid of hard work nor am I afraid to get dirty. I have so many goals in life, as I plan on being out of debt in five years and maybe retiring in 10 years. It's important that you have goals too. If your only goals in life are to get drunk every weekend and get stoned, then I am not the man for you. There is nothing wrong with the occasional drink but I am not the kind of guy that has to have a drink every day nor do I want someone like that in my life. I like a woman that is a free thinker, someone that can talk for hours on end and still be talking and listening, someone who I can look at and ask what is on your mind and you tell me, someone that thinks outside of the box of life. Intelligent and brain stimulating conversations are a big plus for me as is touching, cuddling, holding hands, kissing, naughtiness and yes some kinkiness. I love to look in someone’s eyes and see love, passion, lust, sadness, aggression and open raw emotion. A big heart felt smile is sometimes all a person needs to make a bad day great. I am not against long term relationships but I want to take things slow and work on a relationship/friendship. I am really here to make friends; not to just have sex and I do not want to move fast again. I say that I don't want and that is what I mean. I am fixed and have been for over five years and I have no plans what so ever of having a baby with anyone. I enjoy and it’s great if you have , the older the better. I love to country dance and I do it very good, I enjoy golf, hunting, bowling, shooting pool, going to movies, cooking and hanging out. I want someone who has good work ethics, who has a good heart, who is not jealous, mean or hateful and has good hygiene. I am not a smoker so I prefer nonsmokers due to my asthma. I have dated a few smokers, so I am not completely against it. I am not into drug use at all, (for me that includes pot). I don't want to be with someone who drinks excessively (I know that is relative to who is measuring excessive). There are some who have to drink to relax every day, or drink to calm down or drink to have fun; that is not me. I rarely drink and I prefer not to be around drinking. I am not a sports fan but I enjoy playing golf. I don't watch sports on tv but I do go to some local games. I do love watching my play baseball. I don't go to church at all, sorry if that offends you but that is just my point of view. I refuse to think that my "perfect" partner is not out there. I am here looking for someone to hang out with, date and get to know. I do not want to move to fast again. If you like what you read and see, then let’s get to know each other. If you don't like what you see, then simply say I am not interested. I know that I will not be everyone's type and I know that, so it does not hurt my feelings when someone tells me. I am a big boy with thick skin and I can take it. Anything else you need to know or want to know, just ask.