I'm a middle aged man in good physical shape. I'm independent, active in sports, happy and positive and seek the same in a woman. I'm discerning but not judgemental and not looking for a one night stand here. I'm not looking for "the one" either but I'm open to that if it happens. I'd like to meet a woman who takes pride in her appearance and maintains her figure. She can carry on a conversation, has limited issues and seeks to date and have fun but not looking for a full time soul mate. I prefer a woman who likes her place in life right now and is happy and positive. If you're seeking a clean, respectful, good looking and intelligent man, I'm worth a look.

My Ideal Person It's not so much the"ideal" person that I'm looking for, but the ideal situation and that has to be mutual. I want us both to be attracted to each other on many levels. That's a given in most relationships, isn't it? I'm looking for a woman who is happy in what she has created for herself. To me alot of how we experience a relationship and the pleasure we derive from it is an extention of our own self worth. It seems to me that people who are happy with their lives tend to be more appreciative of the quality of time spent together rather than the quantity of time together. So ideally, I'd like to spend quality time with someone rather than a whole bunch of time. You can have your freedom and space and I can too in between the times we share. And then when we do get together, it is always fresh, special and we're excited to share that time with each other. By the way, I'm monogamous. That is MY choice but I do not expect you to be......it's your life, live it your way.

If this makes sense to you then we're off to a pretty good start already!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, intellectual attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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