I am fun, happy, independent and self-sufficient....but I still love to be spoiled as much as i'll spoil my man with everything good. Enjoy taking time out at least once a year to travel to new places and learn about the culture. Had a healthy, good marriage that lasted for 25yrs until he died of a terminal disease 3yrs ago. I took enough time to grief and be sure I am ready to start getting in conversations again... I am a sexual person and will prefer someone who matches my energy, being naturally happy and touchy is a love language for me, I can't over emphasize that you have to be a naturally happy person enough as thats a sine qua non for being with me.