I am self employed and work in the field of holistic living, focusing on spiritual growth (enlightenment), Inner healing (mental and emotional health) In my early years I did a considerable amount of counseling of abused women. As a result I know first hand what many women have been through. One of the most common things I encountered was broken women who could no longer enjoy sex. My professional limitations kept me from doing much to help them, but in this venue, I am able to apply what I know about healing the body, soul, and spirit, into bringing a woman into sexual wholeness. I am a mature lover who has spent many years researching sexual pleasure- in particularly how to give orgasmic pleasure to a woman. As a result of my study and training I have grown to absolutely love giving a woman orgasms. Even intercourse is more enjoyable for me if I focus on her pleasure and not my own. As part of my training I have learned to control my orgasms. Through the Tantric method I have found a level of pleasure that is orgasmic without the orgasm. This means I can go as long as my partner wants to. The women I have been with since I have developed this ability absolutely love it. Two of them have made a game of trying to get me to orgasm. Both of them have succeeded but I am still ahead when you count attempts to successes. I have never had an STD, I am careful, kind, polite, considerate, If we get together you will be the one who sets the perimeters of the relationship. I am uniquely different than any of the other guys out there in this - I am writing a book about sexual pleasure from the point of each woman's unique sexual experiences. In my book I hope to tell the stories of about 6 women. Who are sexually active when I meet them, and what we discover together as I take their individual spirituality, mentality, and sexuality and merge them together into a modern day sex goddess. My premise is that the more a woman reaches her full potential sexually, the happier and healthier she will be. It is also my premise that a sexually whole woman is sexually superior to a man and should therefore be the master of the bedroom. The man should satisfy her desires, in doing so his will be satisfied too, but if the sexual experience is determined by the male both the woman and the man will be sexually frustrated. I am using this dating service because it should be a good place to find the various kinds of women I hope to share in their sexual experiences and ultimately write about.

My Ideal Person The Ideal woman for me is the woman who is learning and growing in her sexuality. She can be shy and inexperienced or outgoing and experienced, or anything in between, but it is helpful if she has the desire to learn more and to develop her sexuality to its fullest. I honestly believe that I can take whatever level your sexual satisfaction is at and take it to a much higher level.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
CCR

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Giving my partner multiple orgasms, extended periods of arousal

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There are too many of them to mention. I think women are beautiful
creatures. I like them big, little, short, or tall. There
are very few women's bodies that I wouldn't enjoy
exploring.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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