Help others make a real connection with you, and you'll get more responses! Here are some ideas to get you started: Most of my friends would say I have a (dominant/easy-going/shy/other) personality. When it comes to physical health, I exercise about (5 to 7, 3 or 4, 1 or 2) times per week (or never), and expect my sex partners to be at about the same fitness level. I (like/dislike) the bar scene. I prefer (lots of partying/not to party) when I'm involved in sexual encounters.