I prefer the company of a woman older than me who knows what she's doing. I am open to pretty much anything one-on-one. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***UPDATE: I had paid for a gold membership for a month, but have lost faith in people being honest and mature. So until someone changes my mind, not spending money to waste my time. That means that I can't send the first message - so here's a thought, send the first message. Sorry to be so blunt but that's what it's come to haha