Iwant a lover. A woman who understands the joy of sex and has fun in and out of bed. She likes to make love to music and wants to be consumed by the act of lovemaking. She understands that good sex takes time, effort, and communication. She needs to let her partner know what feels good and what makes him feel good too. By putting this commitment into love making and we can have a wonderful and fulfilling sensual experience. Let's live in the moment. I am not into violence or simulated violence. No bondage, no slave-master games. Those are just abhorrent to me. Just be a human being with all that entails, not an angel or a devil, but a person with their own strengths, vices, and joys.