I love my sexy wife of years but she does not take care of my reasonable appetite or desire for intimacy (me 3-4 times per week me, her 1-2 times per month) Before I was married, I had several satisfying longer term relationships (2 months to 5 years) that were actively sexual (at least daily) and modestly wild at times (dressing room in department store, underwater on public beach, rest stop, in the woods, while driving, camping, back yard, 50 yard line of football field, at parties in bathroom, etc. I never had any trouble attracting women, flirting or satisfying lovers as I am an attractive, interesting, educated and fun loving person that also likes one on one quality and quiet down time. I have no nerd features or behavior whatsoever although I Have a college degree in a technical field. I always strive to satisfy my sexual partners with skills, effort and paying attention to their likes and dislikes as long as they are not complete sex freaks because I am not into that other than the innocent part of being a little wild. I do have mild wild streak but nothing compared to some. I have a few rather tame fetishes that are 1. nice buns in panties & bikinis preferring a high cut 2. watching women undressing 3. women that take good care of themselves, their things and their home 4. nice legs especially calves and thighs 5. cameltoes 6. nice smile 7. feminine woman 8. intelligence 9. ambition 10. french manicures 11. the right perfumes 12. confidence 13. professional qualities 14. at least somewhat physically fit What I don't like at all 1. tattoos 2. smokers 3. lack of class 4. lack of intelligence 5. full time slobs in dress, appearance, energy level 6. bar flies 7. drug use 8. anything obnoxious, loud or illegal

My Ideal Person Discrete meet ups to see where it can go. I am open to satisfying sexual activities if the chemistry is there.

I do not want to blow up my marriage or family but I do want to satisfy my modest sexual appetite that my wife does not care to meet despite a satisfying sex life for her low appetite.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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