Its March 30 2018, my first day (paid) on the site. Let's do this! I'm 45 WM, highly educated, professional, open minded, into adventure, open schedule . . . Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going perality. I try to be kind and listen. When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 4 times per week. I'm still a bit overweight but getting close to a normal weight range. I'm definitely athletic. I like to party but its really mellow -- and I drink socially sometimes. A drink is fine, but heavy drinking and sex don't seem too compatible to me. I like my partners to communicate -- tell me what to do or follow my lead-in the bedroom. Both people should be able to lead sometimes. I love sex but would like to make friends first. I'm not interested in a serious relationship. Just a good friend. With Benefits. Chemistry should be there first. Lets talk and build up some anticipation. In the bedroom, I tend to like traditional, straight forward, but I can be open to some kinky, experimental acts. I do have some experience with some kinky things. I'm relaxed and open minded. I like to have fun! I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another man/woman in the room. The more the merrier?

My Ideal Person It would be good if you are fun and open minded. Clean and safe player and disease free (like me) is essential. I'm only interested in sane people looking for a real connection.

I'm straight. I'm interested in exploring sex with another woman. I might be interested in a man/woman couple, a TS, or a group.

I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because privacy is very important.
I don't consider myself kinky, but I probably would be open to trying some new things.

The only taboo I have in the bedroom is . . . gosh there's a lot if you think about it. Nothing degrading, at least. I am curious about everything. I'm a voracious learner and like to think I'm open minded. Even though I haven't been into actually doing much that is kinky, I am definitely curious about kinks and like to talk to people who are into kinks.

As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is...in a big bed with nice sheets in a clean room with an excellent view.
One sexual fantasy I've always had is...joining a swinging site and meeting hot people for some mutually fulfilling sex . . . ha
My feelings on one-night stands are...that they are exciting but not very fulfilling . . .
During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to Barry White -- who else?
Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage is not as important as sex, but its definitely important and really just as fun sometimes.
Foreplay is underrated. I like lots of foreplay before going straight to penetration.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, uh, intercourse with a hot vagina, duh

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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